I Wish I Had Listened to My Father
Discipline is painful now, but regret is unbearable later...

Adebayo, Balqees lives in Iwo, Osun. TYWA stories may be slightly edited for grammatical accuracy and to better serve TGF readers. The originality of the story is 100% intact. - TYWA 2025

There are moments in life when a single piece of advice could have built a bridge over a thousand regrets. Looking back now, I realize that my father's words were not just instructions; they were maps drawn with love, warnings painted in wisdom, and shields against future storms.


Growing up, my father was a quiet but firm man. He didn't raise his voice often, but when he spoke, his words carried weight. “Discipline is painful now, but regret is unbearable later,” he would always tell me. I admired him, but deep down, I believed I knew better. I thought I had all the time in the world to correct my mistakes, that life would somehow wait for me.


I was always one of the top students in class. My grades were a reflection of my capabilities, but they were not a reflection of my dedication or hard work. I was brilliant, but lazy. I believed my intelligence would always carry me through, and I neglected the discipline and focus that were essential for long-term success. Instead of heeding my father’s advice to focus on my studies, I indulged in distractions, thinking I could always catch up later.


But then came the moment of truth, the exam. The one I had put off preparing for, thinking I could somehow make up for all the time I had wasted. But the night before the exam, as I stared at my books, I realized how little I actually knew. The answers that seemed so simple in class now appeared elusive. My mind, once sharp, now seemed foggy with anxiety. The pressure weighed heavily on me, and for the first time, I felt truly afraid.


I walked into that exam hall with a heavy heart, and as the papers were handed out, I knew. I had failed myself. Despite being one of the best students, I had allowed my complacency and lack of discipline to dictate my fate. I had ignored my father’s wise words, and now, the result was clear: I had fallen short.


The failure hit harder than I could have ever imagined. It wasn’t just the bad grade, it was the disappointment I saw in my father’s eyes when I came home—the one who had warned me all along. I realized, too late, that success doesn’t come from raw talent alone; it comes from consistent effort, hard work, and listening to those who guide you with wisdom.


I wish I had listened to my father, not just on that occasion, but throughout my life. His advice was not a burden, but a treasure, and I had failed to see that until it was too late. Even though I was one of the best students, my failure taught me the hardest lesson of all: success is built on discipline, focus, and humility.


I wish I had listened to my father. But now I know better. It’s never too late to start over and build the future you truly deserve.


-Sola Soyele

-TGF Team
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